Dating rehab 100 congo dating
she says she is crazy about me and we have ALOT of sex, which I like.She has a lot of insecurities which I have tried to help her with.I sort of knew in the back of my head that I shouldn't date a recovering narcotic . My son is in rehab again as an adult and his current girl friend is also a drug addict. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. However, with that said, this still will be a lifelong battle, relapse is always a possibility. If you are unsure about this relationship, you know what needs to be done. I don't want to leave her but I feel that maybe I should but am afraid she will go back to drugs if I do. I've expressed my concerns with her about me being a possible reason for her going back to drugs but she says that I am a good influence on her and that she hopes she has enough self respect to not drugs... "In the rooms" they say that any priority you put ahead of your sobriety you will ultimately lose.
Recently she has been having problems with her sponsor. I like her a lot too, maybe not as much as she likes me though. know you aren't supposed to date people that are in recovery but I think I messed up. It sounds like you already know that dating this girl is not a good idea.
That sounds to me like a sign that you and her do not have healthy boundaries.
It is not your position to try to stop somebody from using drugs. I understand that you are caring and good at convincing people.
It won't feel like any of those things when you are doing it, but in the long run you will be doing the best for both of you.
After she's got a year of (continuous) sobriety you both can revisit this if you choose. Part of me really wants to ignore all of you and continue seeing her but I think you guys are right.However, drugs are more powerful than anything else.